How To Get A Boyfriend

Are you feeling insecure and anxious about how to get a boyfriend? Or, has your relationship lost its excitement, and you notice he does not look at you the way he used to, maybe you two have fallen into a relationship rut. Don't worry dear, all is not lost. You can save your relationship and get him to look at you like he did when you two first began dating. Let's discuss how this is done.

If you know what went wrong in your relationship and the problem lies with you, then you need to change your behavior towards him. This is good news because you know what the problem is; now we can fix it and return things back to what they once were. Here are some good tips that apply to getting a boyfriend and getting your boyfriend back.

Insecurity and Anxiety Does Not Help a Relationship
If you know you can be possessive and pushy, quitting this behavior can be difficult. You need to break this cycle that is damaging your relationships. If you are insecure all the time about your relationships, this can lead to anxiety. This constant state of anxiousness will leave you dull, sulky, and irritable. This type of person is no fun to be around.

If you continue down this path, this will ultimately destroy your ability to keep a relationship. Anxiety and insecurity will drive a wedge between you and him. This will make it more difficult for him or anyone to want you. When you two are together, don't be accusative towards him or needle him. You need to have a calm and gentle spirit about you when you spend time together.

Do You Know What Attracted Him To You In The First Place?
When you begin to change your mood and attitude towards him, ask him what attracted you to him. If you don't have the courage to ask him this, then just think about it.

How Have Things Changed Between You Two Since You First Met?
Ask yourself some hard questions like; has your appearance changed? Have you developed ugly annoying habits? Are you letting your friends make decisions in your relationship? If any of the above is true, you should spruce up your appearance, drop the bad habits, and tell your friends to butt out.

For example, if he raved over your cooking and loved the variety of foods you prepared for him, then you should cook some of the things he loves, resume this behavior. Furthermore, if he loved the way you dressed up when you went out on the town, you should resume this behavior as well.

You should also try doing something different with your hair and make-up that will WOW him. When you do little things like this, it goes a long way in getting the spark back in your relationship. The love and respect he has for you will be renewed; and you will be well on your way to saving your relationship.

How Do You Deal With Stress?
If you have been moody or on edge due to stress related to work or something else, don't take it out on your boyfriend. Instead of attacking him, talk to him about what is going on with you. A depressed, moody, and argumentative woman is not attractive. Your boyfriend may be pulling away from you for this reason.

You and your boyfriend should do something fun and exciting together. It will help to smooth over the rough patch you two are going through. The two of you should go out of town and get a change of scenery, spend a week-end at a bed and breakfast. Doing this will help with your mood and strengthen your relationship.

Do You Complain Too Much?

If moodiness, stress, or being argumentative isn't the problem, then analyze your behavior further. Something is causing your boyfriend to be distant and far from you emotionally. For example, have you been complaining about his choice of clothes to wear, the friends he chooses to hang around with, or do you nick pick at him how he chews his food?

If this is what you are doing, this is not helping your relationship. This will only lead him to resent you and want you less. If certain habits that he does bother you, it is better to talk to him in a calm and loving manner. Keep in mind that you are not perfect either.

When you put these suggested guidelines into use, your attractiveness and mood will improve. You will then begin to notice that your boyfriend will find you irresistible just like he had in the beginning of your relationship. If you want to get a boyfriend, the guidelines above will improve your chances of attracting the right person for you.