How To Get Girls

The Law of Attraction and How To Get Girls

Before we go into deep discussion on how to get girls while using the law of attraction, we must first define what the law of attraction is. The law of attraction is a belief system that bases itself on "like attracts like." When you focus on positive or negative thoughts, whatever you think will be.

For example, when you see a girl that you like and you know she is out of your league but you say to yourself, "That girl is going to be my girlfriend" the law of attraction believes that this girl will be your girlfriend. I have seen first hand when someone has said, That is going to be my husband" and sure enough she married him. Now staying married is a whole different subject.

Although there is no scientific basis behind the law of attraction, this particular belief began in the early 1900s by an English writer James Allen, there has been cases where a person said something was going to happen no matter how far out it was, it happened. Now I know you don't want a history lesson on the law of attraction. I just thought I would give you a little background on where it originated.

Now, let's get to the good stuff. I am going to give you 5 guidelines on how to get girls using the law of attraction.

1) Set down in a quiet place and think about what type of girl you want to attract. Write in detail all the traits you want her to have ( sense of humor, high libido, intelligence, financially stable). When you write things down, this helps you to clearly focus on what you exactly want. This step is important. By knowing exactly what you want, you won't attract the wrong type of female. When you are done with your list, set it aside in a safe place. You may want to change some things later.

2) I know this sounds odd but you must love yourself. Most people wind up in crummy relationships because they do not love themselves and they attract the wrong mate. If you want the ideal girl to love you, you must love YOU first. Just as the Law states, "Like attracts like." If you don't like yourself, the girl you attract will not treat you well at all. So, before you start girl hunting, get to an emotional and mental place where you love yourself.

3) Discipline yourself to meditate and bring your mind to get rid of any negative thoughts or emotions. You need to have positive thoughts about giving love and receiving it. Start your day by doing some breathing exercises for 15 to 20 minutes a day concentrating on the power of love. The law of attraction states that the more love you have on the inside of you, the more love you radiate out towards the atmosphere, and love will come back to you in spades.

4) When you find yourself daydreaming, visualize loving scenarios; make them real to you. Whatever you focus your mind on, you will attract. When you imagine positive things happening to you, they will. Your imagination is your most valuable asset when it works in tandem with emotions. It's not enough to imagine the type of girl you want, you have to imagine how you will react when you finally meet her. When you imagine feeling joy and love when you meet her, your perfect girl wherever she may be will feel your positive emotions and therefore will be attracted to you.

5) I know this hard but you must be patient. Us humans want what we want when we want it and this is not always a good thing. Just remember that impatience is a negative emotion and you don't want any negativity flying around your positive aura. Being impatient to get the girl you want can hinder your progress. When you feel a bout of impatience coming on, replace it with something positive.

When you set your personal energy and thoughts to mirror the type of partner you want, you will find the girl that is a perfect match for you.